Six Reasons To Give Your Ex Another Chance

Just because you guys had that small issue and broke up doesn’t necessarily mean he isn’t your soul mates. There are countless examples of people who broke up for years and got back together. like, like..errrrm. I really can’t think of any couple but i’m pretty sure there are couples who broke up and got back together. It’s not every case or scenario where you should get back together with your ex (most especially when he cheats), but there are some cases where you should give him a second chance.

 1. HE FINALLY HAS HIS LIFE TOGETHER UNLIKE BEFORE: This is perhaps the most important reason you should give it another go. When a guy is a mess that he wants you to clean up, you should run and never look back. On the other hand, if he really has his shit together at last, he may be worth your time.

2. OR MAYBE YOU’VE CHANGED: He may have done his fair share of things to contribute to the end of the relationship, but you’re not perfect either. If you’ve taken time to reflect on the relationship and your behavior, made the necessary adjustments and still think you’d like another chance with your ex, this might be the right time.

3. HE MORE HONEST WITH YOU NOW COMPARED TO BEFORE: Often the reason that relationships break down is because someone isn’t being entirely honest. If you’ve been lied to by this guy in the past, you’ll struggle to trust anything he says from now on. It’s time to get the cards out on the table once and for all. If he can explain his actions and be open, you may be able to trust him again. Remember, trust is something that’s earned and he has a really long road ahead of him.

4. YOU STILL GET BUTTERFLIES WHEN YOU SEE HIM: Does he still make you feel the way he did when you guys first met? If those initial feelings have stood the test of time, you’d be a silly fool to throw them all away. Real feeling doesn’t come along every day. Most people spend their entire lives looking for and hoping to find real love. If you already have it, quit complaining and try to make it work.

5. HE’S ABLE TO ADMIT HE WAS ON THE WRONG: Most guys have a real problem admitting it when they are wrong. When that big ol’ ego of theirs starts swelling, there’s no way that they’ll utter the words, “I messed up.” If this man is willing to put you in front of his ego, he might be worth another try. It honestly takes a real man to take a look at himself and realize he screwed up.

6. YOUR FRIENDS ARE STILL VERY CLOSE WITH HIM: What your friends think of your ex will have a massive bearing on how you see him. If they start trash-talking him the moment you split, the chances are they never really liked him. That should tell you all you need to know. However, if they’re reluctant to let the guy go from the social circle, maybe you’re saying goodbye to a good thing. That’s not a hard and fast rule, of course, just something to consider.